Ghosting is one of the most painful parts of modern dating. You’re connecting with someone, the energy feels good, and then — silence. No explanation. No closure. Just poof.

If this has happened to you, you’re not alone. And here’s the most important truth: ghosting is not a reflection of your worth.

In this IG Live replay, I share the healing truth about ghosting — why it hurts so much, what it really says about him, and how you can release the pain so you can attract a man who chooses you.

Why Ghosting Hurts So Much

Ghosting feels devastating because it’s not just about rejection — it’s about being denied the basic decency of a goodbye. That silence can stir up deep emotional wounds:

• Fear: the thought that this will keep happening.

• Anger: the resentment of being left without explanation.

• Shame: self-blame — “What did I do wrong?”

• Confusion: being left with unanswered questions.

• Grief: mourning what you thought might have been.

When you understand that pain, you can begin to release it.

What Ghosting Really Means

Ghosting doesn’t mean you’re unlovable or unworthy. It means the other person lacked the maturity, honesty, or courage to communicate.

Sometimes men ghost because they realize you won’t sleep with them right away. Sometimes they ghost because your standards are clear, and they know they can’t meet them.

But here’s the key: a man with integrity won’t disappear. He’ll communicate clearly — even if he’s not interested.

How to Heal From Ghosting

In the video, I guide you through a simple EFT (tapping) practice to release the sting of ghosting. This technique helps you acknowledge the hurt and then let it go, so you can move forward with love and self-worth intact.

When you heal the wound, you stop carrying ghosting energy into your next relationship. You become magnetic to the right men — men who want what you want, and who are capable of showing up consistently.

When Ghosts Circle Back

Yes, ghosters often come back — sometimes months later, usually at night, when they’re lonely, bored, or curious.

The best response is short, dignified, and final.
Examples:

• “Thanks for reaching out, but I’ve moved on.”

• “I’m not interested. Take care.”

And then block. Because ghosts are supposed to stay dead.

Watch the Replay

This IG Live was one of the most powerful conversations I’ve had with my community, and I want you to have access to it too.

Watch the full IG replay above.

Ready for Deeper Healing?

If ghosting or past heartbreak still feels heavy, you don’t have to carry it alone.

✨ Download my free e-book The Heartache Cure to start clearing old wounds.
✨ Listen to The Overnight Heartache Cure™ audio program — it’s designed to heal the 5 Breakup Wounds while you sleep.
✨ Book a free Find My Soulmate Now session to uncover what’s been keeping you stuck and create your vision for love.

Because ghosting doesn’t define you. Healing does.
And remember: you don’t make love happen, you make love welcome.